COMPLAINING DOESN'T CHANGE A THING
The thing with complaining is, it gets you attention. And people love attention (thats just the way shit is)
There is a good kind of complaining, like when you don't receive the level of service you should for the money you pay etc. that shit sucks (like if I pay for a draught, I expect the damn beer glass to be FULL :-/ )...
Then there's the complaining that people love. The meaningless complaining that gets you nothing but attention. I mean there's a thin line between talking to someone and letting off some steam, and complaining. Where talking to someone or letting of some steam is cathartic, relieves one of stress, eases the load and can be very beneficial in insuring you don't keep shit in till you explode. Complaining is that nagging shit that people do to get a little attention, especially on social sites (count the number of people that complain in a day and you'll be shocked lol)...
I've seen all sorts of complains lol I don't even have the energy to waste on listing a few lol But the sad thing is people who complain don't ever get anything out of it (like, Generations won't change if you always watching and complaining :-/ ) It doesn't gain you a thing, yet you do it everyday.
Complaining strips you of essential power of your will, which is something worth more than you know. Everytime you complain, you remind yourself that you don't have power to change that particular circumstance. Now!! Tell me how that is good for you O_o
I urge you, chill out. If you don't like something, you don't have to complain about it all the time. Acknowledging it one thing, nagging about it is another thing.
The things we cannot yet change however do feel like they are just defeating us don't they. Keep your head up, find someone who is always willing to listen without judgement and you will be awesome.
"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude towards it..." - Maya Angelou
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